Personal Assistance that helps your loved one do more for themselves

Hands-on, non-medical support with daily living, at home and in the community, for children and adults with developmental disabilities across Orange County. Available to RCOC clients and CalOptima Health members.

Support built around your loved one's day

Personal assistance pairs your loved one with a trained caregiver who helps with the everyday tasks that are hard to manage alone, from getting ready in the morning to running errands in the afternoon.

The goal is more than getting things done. Our caregivers follow the goals in your loved one's plan and encourage them to build skills and confidence, so they can live as independently as possible.

Non-medical care

Personal assistance is hands-on, non-medical support. Our caregivers don't administer medication or perform medical or nursing tasks. Every caregiver is background-checked and CPR-certified.

How a personal assistant can help

Every plan is different. Here's what personal assistance commonly includes.

Personal care

Help with dressing, grooming, bathing, toileting and hygiene, always with dignity and respect for privacy.

Daily routines

Support with morning and bedtime routines, transitions between activities and following a predictable schedule.

Meals

Help planning and preparing simple meals and snacks, and support at mealtimes when needed.

Around the home

Light tidying, laundry and keeping personal spaces organized, focused on the person we support.

Out in the community

Errands, outings and community activities, with support to participate safely and confidently.

Building independence

Practicing everyday skills step by step, following the goals in your loved one's plan, so they can do more on their own.

Which one does your family need?

Both bring a caregiver into your home, but they serve different purposes. Many families use both.

TopicRespite carePersonal assistance
Main purposeGives the family caregiver a breakSupports the person's own daily living and independence
What it looks likeA caregiver keeps your loved one safe, engaged and cared for while you rest or run errandsA caregiver helps your loved one with personal care, routines and community activities, and works on everyday skills
Who it's centered onThe family and primary caregiverThe person receiving support
How to get itAuthorized by RCOC or CalOptima HealthAuthorized by RCOC or CalOptima Health

Learn more about our respite care

Who qualifies and how it's paid for

Personal assistance is authorized through the programs your loved one is already part of. We'll help you understand the next step.

RCOC clients

If your loved one is a client of the Regional Center of Orange County, personal assistance can be part of their Individual Program Plan (IPP) when the regional center determines it meets their needs.

Ask your service coordinator whether personal assistance is right for your family. Once it's authorized, you can choose Abbi Care as your provider.

CalOptima Health members

Abbi Care also serves CalOptima Health members. In-home support may be available through your health plan when you meet its eligibility requirements.

Ask your CalOptima Health care manager, or call us and we'll walk you through your options.

Eligibility, hours and any costs are set by RCOC or CalOptima Health, not by Abbi Care. Your service coordinator or care manager can explain what applies to your family.

How to get started

  1. Talk to your coordinator

    Ask your RCOC service coordinator or CalOptima Health care manager about personal assistance.

  2. Send us a referral

    You or your coordinator can submit a referral online or call us.

  3. Meet your caregiver

    We match your loved one with a caregiver who fits, or onboard someone you already trust.

  4. Support begins

    Your caregiver starts on a schedule that works for your family, and we stay in touch.

Questions families ask

Can my loved one have both respite care and personal assistance?
Often, yes. They meet different needs: respite gives the family caregiver a break, while personal assistance supports the person's own daily living. Whether both are authorized is decided by RCOC or CalOptima Health, and we're happy to help you ask.
Does personal assistance happen only at home?
No. Much of it happens at home, but it can also include time out in the community, like errands, outings and practicing everyday skills, when that's part of the plan.
Can we bring a caregiver we already know?
Yes. If there's someone your family already trusts, they can apply with us. Once they complete our screening and onboarding, they can provide your loved one's personal assistance through Abbi Care.
Is personal assistance medical care?
No. It's non-medical, hands-on support. Our caregivers don't administer medication or perform medical or nursing tasks.

Ready to talk about personal assistance?

Families and coordinators can send a referral in about two minutes.

Submit a Referral